Chain Reactions ....

Everything starts with a thiny reaction between two entities , ( refering to things from the thiniest of the atoms , to us humans , a being controlled by the most complex unit of all).

These reactions will usually lead to another slightly bigger reaction which move on to another big one ( some thing like how a ripple formed on water , but only difference is that water ripple dissapears after a while but these reactions don't, they grow and grow and they sustain themselves by obtaining energy from their environtment, exp : wild fire )

We meet people , we greet them , we try to get to know them ... if the first phase worked well we will move on to the second phase where we will like each other and we will have a mutual understanding over things around us and about us. This is th emost fundamental of all relations ships.

But the same method applies to the not so healthy relationships well the first phase is the same but the second phase differs , this is where we decide not to like them. The moment this sets in , we will use the negative eye on this person and we will be naturally bias towards them ... most of this works as a chain reaction one small thing will lead to another much bigger thing.

A friend of mine said this is how you make enemies , but i beg to differ ... hating someone and making enemies are two diferent things, even though they are based on the same feeling. As enemies we don't want to be associated to the person and usually we will try to prove to people and ourselves that we are better than them and this will eventually lead to either party getting into trouble. Hating a person just means that you would never ever want to get associated by any means to that particular person. You would not mean any harm to them as long as they get promoted as the enemy ...

lets just say that ... some things happen for a reason and we have gotta learn how to deal with it. Live must go on.

B